A "Morning" In The Life

Good Morning Sunshines!!!

I'm writing this hoping that whomever reads it will respond with their typical AM routine. wherever you live— NY, NJ,WI, IA, UK wherever.

For as long as I can remember, I've been a happy morning person—Minus a two year span that included Grad School. I think it is all my mother's fault. She has always woken me up so nicely and gently and she uses this giant smile that would fill anyone with love. So, she raised me to be a happy morning person—I swear it's not my fault.

A great example of this was my first year at UW-Stevens Point. I roomed with my best friend Dana and would wake smiling happy and say "Good morning Sunshine!" to Little D as I woke up. Dana however, is NOT a morning person. On the contrary, she would sometimes wake up, messy haired, groggy eyed and say "F#*ck!" as she greeted the day—I imagine the majority of people are like this but like I said " It's not my fault, it's my mom's." Little D and I were like the odd couple (I was the disorganized artsy one and she was cranky first thing in the morning).

(Little D with her messy hair the morning after her bachelorette party)

So this happy morning thing has followed me a little bit to NYC but to be honest it has faded. The stressful morning routine of NYC lifestyle and fighting for a seat on the train combined with grad school took me down a notch. However, I figure if I write about it maybe I'll find something that does make me happy.

My typical morning (Post Grad School) is like this:

• 6:00 Teda Meows or scratches something, I throw a pillow at her and go back to bed.
• 7:08 Open my eyes and check the time and go back to sleep.
• 7:15 The phone alarm beeps. I hit snooze repeatedly till 7:30.
• 7:30 I make Teda come to me, pet her for a bit then get out of bed to shower off her hair. I do like this part a lot. I don't really have to do anything but tap my chest and that gray fur ball is on top of me purring and cuddling. It's so great.
• 7:30-8:00 Shower, get dressed and listen to the iPod on shuffle. This part also makes me smile and if it's an exceptionally great shuffle I get to dance and sing while I pick out my dress for the day.
• 8:00-8:15 Leave home, usually take out any trash, then walk to the NW train. It's about a 10 min walk to the train so this is actually a decent part of my 35-40 min commute in the morning.
  
• 8:15-8:30 Get Green Mountain coffee and a soy yogurt at the local health food store. This is a love hate activity. I love the coffee and the yogurt but for some reason the clerk makes me feel as if I am a burden when I need ice for my iced coffee. And I usually just forget stopping if I didn't bring enough cash (they really dislike letting you use your debit card even tho you can).
  
• 8:30 Get on the train and sit (or stand) until we get to midtown. This is the part of the morning that I dislike the most. By the time I get to the train I'm either sweaty, freezing or wet and then I have to compete with everyone if I want to get through the door, let alone get a seat. I think if I did not have to get on that train I would still be the happiest annoying morning person ever.

(Happy Kate one winter morning before the train)

So that's it. It's not quite as exciting or rhythmic as the Beatles "A Day in the Life" but hey it's what I do.

My resolution to get my AM happiness back? I dunno maybe I should walk to work or get a bunch of freelance design work so I can work from home.

Forgetting How Good

(An eco-elephant to help me remember by Advertising Agency: Ogilvy & Mather, Mumbai, India)

I'm starting this at work so I don't forget again. I am making a note-to-self that I need to remember how good it feels to accomplish something. I'm on a little accomplishment high today after finishing a pretty big goal last night. Woot!!!! I feel great today. :-)

Being extremely driven by a challenge, school was a constant fix of accomplishment for me and the high was amazing. I had so much energy, so much drive and felt great (and tired) for two years straight. Coming down from that high has been a journey. I'm still struggling with the void of such rigorous program in my life. However, I need to remember to feel great all the time and not just when I accomplish something.

So there it is, my reminder. Now on to my next goal!

song of the day: Regina Spektor--Folding Chair

NYC Office Etiquette: According to Kate

If you haven't figured it out by now, I am in a creative profession. For all of you who have envied, despised or lusted after a position in "the creative department," it's not all it's cracked up to be. We are usually the last to get any information that is vital to do our jobs. On a daily basis we have no more than 30 seconds to come up with a great looking & sounding solution. And since art is objective, we get to hear EVERYONE's opinions. I know you may have taken art history or an InDesign course as an elective in undergrad but please let the creatives handle creative. However, since I know you're all itching to know... Yes, we do have more fun.

(Me, having fun!)

Anyway, the other day in my creative area (8 drab cubicles full of colorful people), Cathy and I were talking about birthdays because it is officially Leo season. Most of our department is comprised of Leos. It's not unusual to find a couple Leos in a creative department and I'm sure if you'll have one or two in your "design studio" if you ask. Anyway, Cathy and I were discussing what we should do for a co-worker's birthday and it got me to thinking: "there is a whole set of rules for office etiquette." So, I thought I'd put my Wisconsin Girl spin on it and here it goes:

Birthdays Rule:
First of all, upon landing a job in a NY "creative department" you should find a friend. Be careful to pick wisely because you and this friend are mutually responsible for making each others' birthdays (within the office space) spectacular and the talk of the office. This means whomever you choose as your office BFF must know what type of cake, pie, frosting, and diet that you require for your big day and you are obliged to return the favor. This also means that if you do not establish a reliable office buddy... you're screwed. Well not necessarily, the entire department might feel a need to do something but this is not guaranteed. So if you want a balloon and cake (or pie) to show up on your "21st" b-day, make sure you find your office soul mate.

Tips: Look for the guy or girl who is very organized, seems to remember details and keeps an address book. Virgos are organized, Leos are loyal, Cancers are extremely friendly and Libras have a good sense of balance. Buddy up to any of these and you're golden (maybe).

(Me and my "Office Buddy" and friend Cathy. She's great for after-work drinks, movies, b-days, lunch and much more. I scored big time.)

Purse Advil vs. Drawer Advil Rule:
This one is pretty simple and most of you who are "in the know" will have learned this from the TV series Mad Men. You should keep your drawer stocked with some sort of headache relief pills. However, in "real" creative departments there may be categories of "Advil." First, it's important to know that generic Ibuprofen is the same as "Advil" but much cheaper at Duane Reade. Secondly, since you are--or desire to be--in the creative department, you now leave your standards at the security turnstile. It no longer matters if that "Advil" had been at the bottom of your purse immersed among lip gloss and loose change. When it's needed, you and your co-workers will consume "bottom of the purse Advil" or even "bottom of the drawer Advil."

Tips: "Purse Advil" is a little fresher and cleaner than "Bottom of the drawer Advil" and when possible go for the "in the bottle gel capsule Advil." But never be snobby, because you never know when a headache will hit.

Lunch Rule: Lunch is very similar to birthdays. You should establish a lunch partner, it does not have to be the same as your birthday buddy. Personally I love to eat early and have chosen the perfect lunch partner.
It is 12:15. Cathy calls..."I'm starving"
I respond "OMG, I was just thinking the same thing. I'm going with you"
Cathy says "Okay lets' go"

Tips: The keys to a successful lunch partner are similar mealtimes, similar diet preferences and similar budgets. If you like to eat at 1200 and you pick a lunch partner who can wait until 1400, you might have some difficulties.

Water Cooler (when we are lucky enough to have water) Banter Rule:
Water cooler banter is very common in the creative department. So common that it's kind of the norm. In my office we completely forgo the actual water cooler and just talk over the cubicles. To some this would seem annoying... and yes sometimes it is. Those who are annoyed (including myself) will put their headphones on. This is sort of a prerequisite to working in a creative environment. Normally the creative department is stuffed into a closet and like it or not, creatives talk.

Tips: This one is pretty simple, bring an ipod, headphones, and when partaking in banter: look both ways and have an exit strategy. The phrases "So, I'll send you those files..." is a pretty good strategy but the more creative you are, the better.

Smoking Rule:
As an ex-smoker, I'm not an advocate of office smoking. However, as a new Mad Men convert, I understand it may be integral to some peoples' lives. If you must smoke, keep it to a minimum and do try to quit.

Tips: Essentially NEVER smell the elevator or the office up. Take a walk while you smoke, do not use perfume to cover it up, wash your hands (Purell does not count as washing) and please try to quit. I know it's hard, I've been there, but try.

So that's it for tonight, I have a few more: "Punching out", "Happy Hour" and more but I'm sleepy. I worked today.